Slow Time

In a relationship, there is one thing that always goes unnoticed, something that tends to keep them strong. It is Slow Time. This is the time when you leave all your problems and worries behind and detach yourself from the rest of the world to be with the most important person of your life. Every person has a busy schedule in today’s world and his mind is full of things all the time. People hardly get time to sleep and almost all the time is spent in such things. Little do they realize that by spending all their time on material things, they are giving up something very important to them. They are giving up the moments of enjoyment. It does not take a very wise person to tell you that no work can be done without rest. Proper rest to body and mind is extremely necessary. They need the opportunity to recover. The same applies to relationships. It is important to keep things moving in a relationship, but it is also very important to take a break and spend time to be with each other where emotions can take rest and the souls get some peace.

Slow time does not mean the time when you stop doing anything and become completely idle. It is the time when you leave behind the rest of the world and all the things that you are involved in. it works as a healer in relationships where the partners find it hard to take out time for each other. Some suggestions to enjoy the tome with your partner are given below

•	Look into the eyes of your partner. When a person is not feeling comfortable, then he will always find it difficult to directly look into someone’ eyes. Therefore, by looking into the eyes of your partner, you can overcome that feeling and view the depths of the other person’s soul.
•	Never make the other person feel that his or her wishes are unimportant for you. Always make sure that you acknowledge their requests and wisher by telling them ‘I realize how important this is’ or ‘I understand how much this means to you’.
•	By simply holding the hands of your partner, you can make him or her realize their importance in your life. Holding hands gives a very nice feeling of warmth.
•	Listening to music during slow time is a very effective way to wash away your troubles and just blend with the environment with your partner. It is better if you listen to slow music.
•	Talking to each other about things that make no sense often brings people together. Ask your partner questions which are not important and definitely stay away from the heavy subjects. It also helps you to known your partner in a better way, a way that you didn’t realize before.
•	A quiet dinner at a private place can make a day really special. You can go to a picnic or even a booth in a restaurant.
•	To make the time really memorable, you should try to remember the great memories of the times that you and your partner had spent together.

But what is the most important of them all is that you must remember the time that you are spending at that very moment for it is a rare moment. Store this time inside your mind and try to remember it when you are feeling sad or stressed.

Finally, you should exercise the following steps to help in bringing life back into your relationship.

•	Try to understand yourself and the reasons for your behavior. Search for the possible solutions to these reasons and then try to implement them.
•	Never try to convince the other person about your feelings and love. Try to relax yourself and devote yourself completely to your relationship. Learn to trust and love yourself.
•	Do not try to be selfish and remove any thoughts of ‘me first’ from your mind. Try to feel the oneness in the relationship rather than looking it as two people.
•	Realize that the other person also has a life to live. Give him or her ample of time and opportunity to grow. Try to acknowledge the fact that the other person is also as much an individual as you are.
•	Never try to question the love of the other person. This is the biggest mistake people commit in a relationship.
•	Do not try to find the fault of the other person, even if you are right. Try to reason with yourself and find out where you went wrong. Communication forms the foundation of every relationship. Try to listen to each other’s opinions and respect them.
•	Do not become over dependent on any person nor let anyone else become dependent on you.